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Confrontation is Good.

Updated: Jun 2, 2023

Growing up, I was often labeled as an angry child. I found myself in frequent conflicts with my sister and peers at school, earning me the reputation of being confrontational. Looking back, I realize that my anger was merely a manifestation of deeper, unresolved emotions. Our understanding of emotions is often limited to happiness, sadness, and anger, but there is a whole spectrum of emotions that we need to acknowledge and explore. It was through the guidance of my mentor and the concept of "feel, deal, and heal" that I learned the importance of confronting my emotions and cultivating emotional intelligence. In this blog post, I want to share my journey of channeling my confrontational tendencies into a powerful tool for personal growth and healing.

Embracing the Full Range of Emotions:

Our emotional landscape is far more complex than we realize. While society often encourages us to suppress or ignore certain emotions, the truth is that every emotion has a purpose and a message for us. By expanding our awareness and understanding of emotions, we open ourselves up to a richer human experience. Instead of shying away from confrontation or labeling it as negative, we can view it as an opportunity to explore and confront the underlying emotions that drive our actions.

Identifying and Acknowledging Emotions:

Confronting our emotions begins with the process of identification and acknowledgment. It requires us to pause and reflect on how we feel, digging beneath the surface to understand the root causes of our emotional responses. This self-awareness allows us to gain clarity and insight into our own thought patterns, triggers, and behaviors. By honestly confronting ourselves, we empower ourselves to address our emotions head-on and make conscious choices about how we want to respond.

Dealing with Emotions:

Once we have identified our emotions, the next step is to deal with them effectively. This involves developing healthy coping mechanisms and strategies to process and express our emotions constructively. Confrontation can be channeled into assertiveness, effective communication, and boundary-setting. By learning to express our emotions in a respectful and mindful manner, we not only honor our own feelings but also create healthier relationships and foster a deeper sense of self-worth.

Healing and Personal Growth:

Confronting our emotions is a crucial step towards healing and personal growth. When we confront our emotions, we allow ourselves to face past traumas, address unresolved issues, and embark on a journey of self-discovery. It is through this process that we can heal from emotional wounds and transform our lives. By embracing confrontation as an opportunity for growth, we tap into our inner strength and resilience, paving the way for a more authentic and fulfilling existence.


Confrontation is not inherently negative; rather, it is a catalyst for self-awareness and personal growth. By confronting our emotions and engaging in healthy confrontation, we develop emotional intelligence, enhance our relationships, and create a solid foundation for our well-being. So, let us embrace the power of confrontation, for it holds the key to unlocking our true potential and living a life of authenticity and emotional fulfillment.

Dedicated to Coach Renee Roberts of Coach My World @iamreneeroberts

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